Spreading her roots in the Literary World - Sunayana Khandelwal
Author Sunayana Khandelwal shares her views at the launch of her debut book — Can You Love This Way?

As far as my hobbies and interests are concerned, I am an Author and a Writer my first book depicts how sometimes love is perceived by different people. It is based on love stories of three women. The title of the book is ‘Can You Love This Way?’
The book was published worldwide on 22nd September 2020 and is nominated for the Coimbatore Literary Awards 2020 in the Best Fiction - Romance Category.
Beside this, I am a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Coach. I work towards helping my clients develop understanding towards the viewpoint of others. Usually people misunderstand it by ‘changing them’. But that is not what I do. I just try to help them broaden their perspective and be receptive of how different others can think about the same subject.
I am also researching a topic in Phenomenology, that is ‘The Role of Prayers in Human Life’ - A phenomenon misunderstood by many.
I love reading, especially if its Robin Sharma, Louise Hay, Mitch Albom or John Grey, it is difficult to miss.
I like travelling and have interest in Graphology. I am a spiritual seeker, I follow Ajapa Yog for mindfulness. I am a speaker, a life enthusiast, and a firm believer of ‘Life is Beautiful’.
The book emphasis on perspectives of people towards the experiences they had with the most important person in their lives. People generally prefer being at the place that is accepted by the society, very less people has the courage to live life on their own terms. All the three lead characters in the book chose a unique path in their lives, keeping in mind their ‘set of realities’. Not everyone might relate to the choices they made, some of you might not agree with them however for some it might be worth an admiration. Which is ‘Ok’ as love is perceived differently by different people.
The subjects discussed in the book ‘Can You Love This Way?’, are like bigamy, re-marriage, sensitive emotions after divorce, handling rejections, forgive and let go, etc.
I tried to match the emotions and feelings of the lead women in the stories with help of words and imageries... and I hope it reaches to the heart of the readers.
Q. What is the inspiration behind the book? Your thought process while writing it.
Sunayana: I don’t remember if there was anything which I can call as a source of inspiration, but Yes, I remember one evening, when one of my clients, who was taking NLP session with me came to me with a heavy heart, completely shattered. She just kept saying, “what was my fault, why me”? Being a Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) coach, I often talk to people, who share the experiences about their lives, but I noticed that mostly all talk about them and their perceptions only, they had no idea about the viewpoint of the person they were talking about. I had no intentions to judge someone as right or wrong here. The idea was to present the point of view of one person only whom I know, without judging anyone else. Honestly speaking, it is not even the battle of being right or wrong. Because everyone takes the decisions with the best of their abilities and set of realities.
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First Published: Oct 13, 2020, 00:47
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