Entrepreneurship: How to stay balanced when you feel like the world is falling apart
The journey is equal parts exhilarating and exasperating. Make quick changes to your daily life to keep yourself stable
If you’re anything like me, you go through the sinusoidal motions of the entrepreneurship journey rather swiftly. One day you feel like you’re falling apart, and just the next instant, you feel like you’re going to take over the world. Entrepreneurship is tough––and it most certainly is emotionally draining.
I won’t lie to you, it can be exasperating. To counter this problem over the last few years, though, I have made a conscious effort of trying to stay balanced. This includes a seemingly ‘simple-in-theory-but-difficult-to-pull-off’ combination of altering my mindset and practicing some activities every day. They’ve changed my life for the better.
Create an Achievement Manifesto
We all have those days when we feel dejected or insecure. When life seems like it’s falling apart, you tend to forget things you’ve achieved in the past. When you’re low on confidence, creating an achievement manifesto helps you get going.
» Write down all the things that you’ve achieved since you were a kid. It could be first place in an elocution competition, the first big order you landed or the amount of money you’ve saved. Or maybe you scaled the Everest, got featured in the newspaper, and managed to tick things off your bucket list sooner than you thought you would. Whatever it is, all of it goes on the list.
» While writing the Achievement Manifesto, you will realise that you’re in the top 0.1 to 5 percent of the world’s population. Think about it: You have a roof over your head, you’re making decent money, you probably have family and friends who love you very much and you may have an education that has helped. How many people in the world can say that?
Form a routine
» Listen to motivational audiobooks, podcasts or just random clips on YouTube for at least 10 minutes a day. You could start with Tony Robbins - Law of attraction coaching, Mind Valley or Tim Ferris, and explore other content creators in the market.
» Include a 30-minute workout everyday; this is the most important one, because you need to let those endorphins flow. In his book Extreme Ownership, Jocko Willink says, “Anything I do long term, I do at the start of the day, and anything I do short term, I push it to later.” Staying healthy has to be a long-term goal, because your physical health is connected to your mental health. A ton of Indian startup heads lead an extremely imbalanced life, and proudly say that they don’t hesitate to put in 18 hours of work everyday. In truth, all you actually need to do is to figure out a way to be more productive and more balanced and you won’t burn out.
» Write a journal. The things you could make entries about include: Data dump, which includes penning down whatever’s on your mind; your frustrations, or things you’re grateful for––born in a certain country, your privileges, the wonderful people in your life, and even the role entrepreneurship plays in your life everyday. And lastly, do mention your vision for the year, so that you’re always consciously aware if what you want to achieve in 2019.