Exploring the dance between flow and wisdom in modern life
Real wisdom is the ability to see the bigger picture, hold multiple truths, navigate uncertainty, manage ambiguity, regulate your emotions when everyone else is spiralling, and know when to act—or not act.
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Picture this: You’re elbows-deep in a spreadsheet, preparing a budget presentation, and suddenly the noise disappears. Time folds in on itself. You forget your coffee’s gone cold. You’re not working—you are the work. Congratulations! You’re not just being productive. You’re in flow.
Now, cut to another scene: Your friend or colleague calls you in crisis. You pause, resist the urge to give advice, listen deeply, and say something that makes her rethink her entire breakup strategy—or his relationship with his team at work. That? That’s wisdom.
Both are cool. Both feel great. But they’re not the same beast. They might just be the spiritual equivalent of peanut butter and pickles—an odd pairing until you realise the surprising chemistry.
Flow is what psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (pronounced something like chick-sent-me-high) made famous. It’s that magical groove you slip into when a task is just hard enough to be interesting but not so hard you throw your laptop out the window.
[This article has been reproduced with permission from SP Jain Institute of Management & Research, Mumbai. Views expressed by authors are personal.]